process: Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins.
Clear, James. Atomic Habits: the life-changing million-copy #1 bestseller (p. 39). Random House. Kindle Edition.
Nice guy, jerk!
The nice guy sees that fun is merely being around a
beautiful woman. The jerk is a bit more… active. He wants
to have fun his way. She is along for the ride.
It has been well known that action dates (ex: dancing,
bowling, rock climbing, etc.) work MUCH BETTER than
regular dates (coffee, dinner, movie, etc).
Rather than merely matching the effect (the action
date), let us focus on the cause. The jerk would obviously
skateboard and play basketball than to sit at dinner and
watch the girl flap her gums.
beautiful woman. The jerk is a bit more… active. He wants
to have fun his way. She is along for the ride.
It has been well known that action dates (ex: dancing,
bowling, rock climbing, etc.) work MUCH BETTER than
regular dates (coffee, dinner, movie, etc).
Rather than merely matching the effect (the action
date), let us focus on the cause. The jerk would obviously
skateboard and play basketball than to sit at dinner and
watch the girl flap her gums.
up skill
You will be able to pick up new techniques whenever you need them.
Devlin, Keith. Introduction to Mathematical Thinking . Keith Devlin. Kindle Edition.
Comfort zone
You have to be your own best friend and coach to constantly inspire yourself to get the fuck outside of your comfort zone, and take EXTREME RADICAL ACTION TO GET MOTHERFUCKING RESULTS TODAY!!!
Steps
Step up or step aside.