Nice guy, jerk!

The nice guy sees that fun is merely being around a
beautiful woman. The jerk is a bit more… active. He wants
to have fun his way. She is along for the ride.
It has been well known that action dates (ex: dancing,
bowling, rock climbing, etc.) work MUCH BETTER than
regular dates (coffee, dinner, movie, etc).
Rather than merely matching the effect (the action
date), let us focus on the cause. The jerk would obviously
skateboard and play basketball than to sit at dinner and
watch the girl flap her gums.